I am a fierce, ambitious, powerful woman.
I used to be afraid to say that.ย I used to think it would come off as cocky. I used to not want to draw attention to myself. ๐ ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ข๐บ ๐ด๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐บ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฆ.ย
I used to feel awkward selling someone into my program. . . But when you think about it – everything in life starts with a sale of some sort.
And I KNOW my program teaches ladies to be HAPPY HEALTHY & CONFIDENT without starving themselves and hating their lives – it works. ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐.
So, why should I feel awkward? I didnโt even realize my awkwardness about it until a couple months ago.
I love to meet new people, see where they are struggling, help if I can, but also take the knowledge to build my content and keep my program relevant to serve and consistently give value to my clients. I was in a conversation with a girl on social media chatting about health and fitness. When I asked her where she was struggling she replied โI donโt need a coachโ.
I found later she proceeded to screenshot our conversation and post it on her social media saying โ๐๐ช๐ด ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ช๐ต๐ค๐ฉ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐บ!โ
โฅ๏ธA few months ago this would have bothered me and I would have questioned everything I was doing because of the actions of ONE stranger. Instead of being confident in my knowledge and good intentions to serve others, instead of being confident that I was changing lives by the results of the HUNDREDS of ladies I coach daily, I would have let the words of ONE STRANGER make me question everything I was building.
I then did some reflecting and thought about what was the truth (and what wasnโt). What WAS the truth? – This stranger had probably been sent one too many copy and paste โsalesyโ buy my miracle cream, fad diet messages and it was a reflection of her thoughts and not my intentions.
The way I look at it, I know 100% WITHOUT A DOUBT, Evolve Coaching & the Badass Babe Squad and the knowledge, support and accountability you get will transform not just your body, but your whole life!ย
The way I now look at it – If I see a woman struggling, and I donโt sell her into my program, I will be doing her an injustice. Because I know my program works. And I know I can help her to change her life.
๐ I also know if I donโt get her into my program, she might attempt another fad diet, cut out a food group, try a skinny tea or miracle pill or cream, because it seems so easy in the magazines…. then fail again, and that might have been her last attempt.
And I am no longer afraid to make that statement out loud! As of lately, my lane is the fast lane ๐ ๐จ
๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐๐ผ๐พ๐.
๐ I want to make a difference.
๐I will no longer play small
๐I will no longer sit quietly on the sidelines.
๐I will no longer let the comments of a total stranger make me start to question my integrity or my mission.
๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฎ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ฒ, ๐ฎ๐บ๐ฏ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐๐, ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐๐น ๐ณ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ.
๐ And I am here to level up the womenโs health and fitness industry.
Happy International Womenโs Day Babes!
-Coach